On one hand, the onset of Spring brings blossoming tulips and
magnolias here in the north-east, heralding the approach of warmer,
longer, sunnier days. On the other hand, it brings the much dreaded
admissions decision season in New York City as pre-schools, nursery
schools, and kindergartens in the city begin the process of informing
parents whether their child was admitted or rejected or wait-listed. The
season becomes joyful if the news is good, and can become colder and
greyer than winter if families get a rejection letter.
The
admissions season begins in early Fall, or even late summer, as
embarking on school tours and completing application forms seem to take
up every waking moment of parents of toddlers as they strive for that
"best" preschool for the beloved apple of their eyes. I can only remind
families that there is no one "best" school. Rather, the school that is
right for your toddler is the one that works best for you as a family.
As a former Director of Admissions of an Upper West Side Independent
Nursery/Kindergarten school for ten years I was interviewed on how to
shop for preschools and the points I made at that time still hold good.
As parents of toddlers prepare to launch into next year's admissions
season they might want to take a deep breath and read the pointers which
I have briefly presented here so that they can ask the right questions
when shopping for Preschools:
Environment - Is the
general school and classroom environment bright, spacious, airy,
welcoming and child-friendly? Do you see a lot of diversity in the school
amongst teachers as well as children? Is the school welcoming of
diverse families? Are there indoor and outdoor spaces where young
children can learn and play? Do the classrooms allow ample space for the
children to move around throughout the day? Are there multiple play
areas in each classroom that allow for diverse activities such as
Reading and Writing, Art and Painting, Dramatic Play and Housekeeping,
Construction and Block Play, Sand and Water Play, and so forth.
Teachers - Are
the teachers and staff well-qualified and experienced? Are the group
sizes small and is there an adequate number of teachers in each
classroom? What about the teachers' demeanor and approach to children - Are they engaged in play with the children or are they merely
supervising? What is the teacher turnover rate?
Curriculum - What
is the educational philosophy underlying the pedagogy and curriculum -
Progressive, Reggio Emilia, Bank Street, Montessori, Waldorf? Is the
school philosophy in sync with your parenting philosophy? Is it a
play-based approach to learning or a more traditional academic approach
or somewhere in between? Are there plenty of hands-on activities for
children to engage with around the classroom or are they spending more
time sitting at tables? Is the curriculum culturally responsive - do
teachers welcome the inclusion of children's racial, ethnic, religious
and linguistic backgrounds to inform and enrich the curriculum and their
teaching? Does the school make an attempt to get to know your child
before they start school? Are there any specialty teachers in the school
for Art, Music and Movement, Literacy? Most importantly - do the
children look ACTIVELY ENGAGED and HAPPY??
Calendar and Schedule - Does
the school's annual and daily schedule work for you as a family in
terms of drop-offs, pick-ups, and holidays? If both parents are working
will the school offer an early drop-off or a late pick-up? Are there
substantial after school activities for your child?
Affordability - A
preschool does not have to break your bank. There are expensive good
schools but also moderately priced good schools. Is the school tuition
affordable for you as a family? Does the school offer a sliding scale
fee, or a payment plan spread over the year, or any financial
assistance?
Access - To conserve time and energy as a
family it is advisable to look for a preschool near your place of
residence. Over time it is easier and more sustainable if the preschool
commute is easy for the parents and for the child.
The above are
just some of the points to keep in mind while shopping for a preschool. I
am including a link below to a PBS article where you can get more
important information on this topic.
In
conclusion I want to reiterate once more what I have already emphasized
earlier - there is no one "best" school. Rather, the school that is
right for your child is the one that works best for you as a family.